Your relationship with money is shaped by your nervous system
The reality is most of the women I work with have spent thousands of dollars on personal development, are incredibly self-aware and great at what they do.
But, as women, we’ve been conditioned to try and heal our relationship with money by focusing almost exclusively on our mind - thoughts, beliefs, values.
We were never taught how to FEEL safe, powerful, and in control with serious money.
That changes here.
What if your next level of wealth wasn’t about working harder or proving you deserve it…
But learning how to release the invisible limits your body learned years ago, so your nervous system can relate to money in a completely new way.
A way where your body isn’t on edge, constantly stressed about money, overthinking every decision, or waiting for the other shoe to drop - because every cell in your body genuinely believes:Â
I’m safe with serious money.
I belong at this level.
This abundance is mine to keep.
This is exactly why I created The Money Upgrade.Â
Inside The Money Upgrade
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You're getting a unique behind-the-scenes look at the exact EMDR-informed method I use to help high-achieving women rewire their relationship with money, so you finally understand what it takes to feel calm, powerful, and in control with serious wealth.
How core money memories shape how safe (or unsafe) money feels in your bodyÂ
Why emotions like guilt, shame, and fear show up right at the edge of expansion and how to begin working with them instead of fighting against them
The reason your body stores invisible rules about money, and how they show up in your pricing, spending, and capacity (even when you know better)
The secret to decoding your body’s money signals so you can understand what they’re actually trying to protect you from
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To fast track your next level of wealth, you'll also experience a Mini Expansion Session
You’ll be guided through my signature EMDR method for performance, designed to show you just how quickly you can begin to feel confident with money when working with the power of your nervous system.Â
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Access your bonus workbook to help you apply everything you learn.
Wait... What is EMDR?
You might’ve heard Eye Movement Desensitisation & Reprocessing talked about as a therapy for trauma.
That’s not what this is.
Inside The Money Upgrade, EMDR is used as a high-performance tool — the same kind elite athletes, multimillion-dollar CEOs, and even celebrities like Miley Cyrus use to clear mental clutter, stay focused, and remain calm when the stakes are high.
There’s a reason my clients call this their secret weapon.
This isn’t therapy.
It’s a results-driven approach designed for women in business who already know how to make money, but want to feel calm, clear, and in control with more of it.
I’ve adapted this method specifically for ambitious women ready to expand their wealth without overthinking or burning out.
And you can access it now for just $37.
If we haven't met yet
Hi, I’m Eloise Tomkins
Money Coach &Â Psychologist
Like you, I spent years believing the answer to money confidence was more effort, more healing, more mindset work.
But no matter how much insight I gained or how much I earned, money still felt stressful... until I started working with my nervous system.
I realised you can think as much as you want... but you only feel your way into resilience, security, and true self‑trust.
Now I help successful women expand their nervous system's capacity for wealth using EMDR-inspired techniques that create change in days, not decades.
That's why I'm excited to walk you through a condensed version of my signature EMDR expansion method I use with high-level clients that changes your relationship with money from the inside out.
It doesn’t matter if you’re at $5K or$50K months, because this isn’t about how much money you make.
It’s about increasing your nervous systems capacity for more. Â
If you’ve ever…
- Worried you’re not worthy or deserving of wealth (even when you're doing well) Â
- Felt like money should feel easier by now
- Reached your income goals but still don’t feel successful
- Wanted to understand how the nervous system impacts your relationship with money
…then this is for you.
The Money Upgrade is your first step to breaking free from the invisible limits that keep you working hard but never fully receiving what you're truly capable of.
Let’s upgrade your capacity for serious wealth.Â
One Decision. A Whole New Way of Holding Wealth.
You’ve mastered the mindset. Nailed the strategy. Grown the business.
But if money still feels stressful or slips away just as fast as it comes in, there’s one thing you haven’t upgraded yet: your nervous system.
Just imagine… what would shift if more money started feeling safe, normal, and even fun?
This is the work most women skip.
But not you.
Inside The Money Upgrade, you’ll finally understand what it takes to feel powerful, calm, and in control with serious money.
And it starts with one decision.
