THE MONEY UPGRADE

Ready to feel 10x more confident with money, fast?

Inside this mini‑course, you’ll experience the same high‑performance EMDR method multi‑6 and 7‑figure women use to update their nervous system so they can move with power, clarity, and ease around serious money.

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THE MONEY UPGRADE

What if you could feel 10x more confident with money, fast?

Without working harder, manifesting abundance or trying to 'think positive'

Inside this EMDR mini-course you’ll experience the nervous system method high-achieving  women in business use to rewire their nervous system to feel powerful, confident and safe with serious money. 

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Being the woman who feels powerful with money? That’s the real goal.

Sure, $20k or $50k months is amazing,  but confidence with money isn't about how much is in your bank account or how hard you work.

It’s about trusting yourself fully and feeling empowered with money.

That’s what the women who are making serious cash are really doing differently.

And now, it’s your turn to learn how to reach those goals, fast.

This isn't about understanding your money patterns. 

It’s about feeling them lose the emotional charge.

Inside this mini-course, I'll guide you through the Rapid Money Rewire Method informed by EMDR and nervous system tools that my multi-six and seven-figure clients rely on when the stakes are high and overthinking isn’t an option.

Right now, money feels like a test you keep failing. 

You're making money, and still feel anxious that it'll all disappear. You're making more than ever, yet somehow feel less financially secure.

You want money to feel 

 

 

One where your confidence grows with your income, not despite it.
Where you trust yourself with big money — and it shows.
Where success feels embodied, not borrowed.

You don’t want to hustle for regulation.
You want the internal upgrade that makes holding more feel like second nature — not survival.

 

 

You hit the goals, raise your rates, stack the months… but inside, it still feels like you’re holding it together with grit and spreadsheets.

You want money that lands with certainty.
Power that doesn’t collapse under pressure.
And a nervous system that can hold the success you already created — without the internal chaos.

You don’t need more strategy. You need to feel as safe with serious money as you do with your own magic.
This is the shift that makes it inevitable.

. You’re making real money — but instead of feeling powerful, you’re quietly bracing for it all to collapse. Holding more means hustling harder. Raising your rates means waiting until you “feel ready.”

You want to feel in control of your money — not just making it, but trusting yourself with it. You want to expand without second-guessing every decision. You want money to feel solid, simple, and safe — like it actually belongs to you.

 
 

Right now, your income feels unpredictable. You hit a big month, but the calm doesn’t last. You tell yourself it’s just a phase — but deep down, you know something’s off. You’re making money… but it doesn’t feel stable. Or safe.

You want your nervous system to actually match the numbers in your Stripe account.
To feel calm holding more. Clear when making big moves. Certain when money flows in — and just as certain when it doesn’t.

You’re not here to just earn.
You’re here to expand.
To lead.
To feel like the woman your numbers say you already are.

 
 

 

 

Right now, your nervous system is running the money show. You raise your prices and feel sick. You close a big sale and instantly panic. You make more, then sabotage or stall — not because you’re flaky, but because your body isn’t on board.

You want money that feels solid — not like it could disappear the moment you slow down. You want to trust yourself with bigger numbers, bolder moves, and next-level decisions — without needing three mindset hacks just to click “send.”

You want expansion without dysregulation. To grow your income, hold more wealth, and actually feel good in the process.

 
 

 

 

Right now, your success feels like a sprint. You’ve made serious money — but it still feels like you’re holding it all together with grit and a Google Calendar. You push through the pressure, but inside? Your body’s still bracing.

You want a business that doesn’t just look successful — it feels safe. One where bold moves don’t require recovery time. Where growth isn’t met with fear, guilt, or that familiar tension in your chest.

You want to scale without shrinking yourself. To lead, earn, and live at full capacity — without burning out your nervous system to get there.

 
 

 

 

Right now, your relationship with money probably feels like waiting for a miracle. and you’re the one keeping the pace. Big money’s coming in, but so is the pressure. You’re holding it all, smiling on Zoom, secretly wondering when the cracks will show.

You want wealth that holds you back. Not revenue that feels like weight.

You want to trust your nervous system with more — more clients, more visibility, more responsibility — without the stress that usually tags along.

You’ve done the mindset work.
Now you're ready for the internal upgrade that lets you live like the powerful woman you already are.

 
 

 

That’s where EMDR comes in.

A high-performance nervous system method used by celebrities, Olympic athletes and top execs, now tailored for women in business who are done letting shame, guilt or fear block their financial power.

Inside The Money Upgrade, you’ll discover:

✅ Why your income level feels “familiar” even when it frustrates you
✅ How to shift your nervous system’s response to money—fast
✅ A guided EMDR reset session to unlock clarity, calm, and confidence with money

What makes this different from everything you’ve tried before

Most approaches ask you to:

  • think differently

  • manage emotions

  • override fear

  • push through discomfort

The Money Upgrade does something else entirely.

It helps your nervous system:

  • recognise the money trigger

  • release the old response

  • install a calmer, more grounded one

So confidence stops being something you manufacture
and starts being something you feel.

 

 

What’s actually happening

At some point — often long before your current success — your nervous system learned how much responsibility, visibility, and money felt safe to hold.

That internal limit becomes your money set-point.

When you approach or exceed it, your body reacts automatically:

  • hesitation

  • tightening

  • urgency

  • avoidance

  • over-thinking

Not because money is dangerous —
but because your system hasn’t been shown otherwise.

 

WHAT BECOMES POSSIBLE AT FULL CAPACITY:

✓ You charge what you're worth 
Without apology, justification, or that familiar chest tightening

✓ Money becomes boring
Not a source of worth, not proof of safety, just a neutral tool

✓ Success feels inevitable
Because your nervous system finally agrees with your ambition

✓ You stop dimming
No more managing others' comfort with your success

✓ Decisions become clear
Without the fog of nervous system resistance

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Hi, I'm Eloise Tomkins

I'm a Psychologist and Money Coach who helps high-achieving women in business understand how their nervous systems shape their relationship with money.

I created this course because I kept seeing brilliant women set bold money goals… only pull back just as things got good.

Not because they’re not ready. But because their nervous system is still wired to ‘just enough.’

Inside, I’ll walk you through the exact process I use with clients to uncover their subconscious money set point so they can finally understand what’s been driving their financial behaviours so you can know exactly what needs to change. 

 

 

What Makes This Shift So Fast?

The Money Upgrade uses a rapid EMDR‑informed process — a nervous system technique that helps change automatic reactions before your brain even gets involved.

This isn’t therapy. It’s a high‑performance tool used quietly by elite performers — from Olympic athletes to CEOs — when they need to move with clarity, confidence, and calm under pressure.

In this experience, we apply this same kind of nervous system work to money.
It helps recalibrate the felt response to financial decisions so your body stops treating money like a threat and starts treating it like a tool you can hold with confidence.

Imagine hearing “yes” from your nervous system — not just your mind.

What This Method Really Is

The key to The Money Upgrade isn’t another mindset tool — it’s a nervous system reset inspired by EMDR, a precision performance method used by elite performers to shift automatic patterns fast.

It’s the same style of technique that:

✨ Helps Olympic athletes move through pressure with calm focus
✨ Allows CEOs and founders to make big decisions without hesitation
✨ Gives performers and executives the capacity to stay regulated under stress

Now, it’s been tailored to the place many women feel the most pressure, responsibility, and self‑doubt: money.

Here’s why it works:

Instead of talking about confidence, this process reconfigures the internal wiring that has been quietly telling your body to tighten, hesitate, or hold back — even when your brain says you know what to do.

When that pattern quiets down:

  • Money stops activating your fight‑or‑flight response

  • Decisions you used to overthink become grounded and obvious

  • Confidence becomes something you feel instead of just wish for

  • You respond to financial opportunities with presence instead of pressure

Clients often describe this as “feeling like magic” — not because it’s mystical, but because the change is felt, fast, and undeniable.

It isn’t woo.
It’s the body finally agreeing with the woman you already are.

 

 

The Money Upgrade uses a rapid EMDR‑informed process — a nervous system technique that helps change automatic reactions before your brain even gets involved.

This isn’t therapy. It’s a high‑performance tool used quietly by elite performers — from Olympic athletes to CEOs — when they need to move with clarity, confidence, and calm under pressure.

In this experience, we apply this same kind of nervous system work to money.
It helps recalibrate the felt response to financial decisions so your body stops treating money like a threat and starts treating it like a tool you can hold with confidence.

Imagine hearing “yes” from your nervous system — not just your mind.

Why this matters

Most money work talks to your thoughts.
Your nervous system determines how you actually move.

By working with both, you begin to notice:

  • The old, automatic pull‑back doesn’t hijack your focus anymore

  • Big decisions feel grounded, not heavy

  • Hesitation turns into clear, decisive action

  • Confidence becomes something you feel — not just something you tell yourself

Clients often describe this as feeling like magic — not because it’s mystical, but because the shift happens in your body first and then shows up in your decisions.

It isn’t magic.
It’s your nervous system finally catching up with your ambition.

 

 

 

 

 

EMDR isn’t about reliving the past. It’s a rapid nervous system‑based technique first developed to help people shift how their body responds to intense or automatic reactions. Today, high performers — from elite athletes to CEOs and founders — use variations of this approach when they need to perform with clarity, confidence, and ease under pressure.

In The Money Upgrade, we apply an EMDR‑informed method not as therapy, but as a high‑performance tool to help you feel what changes when your internal wiring finally supports your financial ambition.

Here’s why it works: when your nervous system stops reacting to money as a threat — as something to avoid, justify, explain, or shrink away from — your decisions become calmer, clearer, and far more decisive. You stop thinking your way forward and start feeling safe enough to act.

Most money work speaks to your thoughts.
This speaks to the part of you that actually runs your decisions — your body.

Clients often describe this shift as “magic” — not because it’s mystical, but because they feel the difference immediately.

 

If you’ve ever thought…

“Money should feel easier than this — not like a negotiation with my nervous system…”

Then this is the missing piece.

You’ll walk away with:

  1. A clear sense of how money triggers your system before your thinking does

  2. The ability to spot and shift your internal response mid‑movement

  3. A first‑hand experience of confidence that feels bodily not just intellectual

  4. The start of a new money identity — one that actually feels embodied

 

 

This is not for beginners.
It’s not for people looking for strategy.
And it’s not for women who want to “heal slowly.”

This is for women who are ready to feel what power with money actually feels like — before deciding what’s next.

 

 

 

Here’s exactly what you’ll walk through, simply and clearly:

Step 1: Identify Your Financial Target Memory

We start with one specific money moment that still feels stuck.
This gives your nervous system a clear place to begin.

Step 2: Notice How It Feels in Your Body

Before thoughts come in, your body reacts.
You’ll learn to see that first response and rate it — so real change can begin.

Step 3: Identify the Emotions Behind It

Fear, guilt, avoidance are not the problem — they’re information.
You’ll learn to read them so they stop running the show.

Step 4: What You’ve Been Making It Mean

You’ll uncover the unconscious story you’ve been telling yourself about money and decide what you want to believe instead.

Step 5: Reset Your Response (EMDR‑Inspired)

This is where the body actually shifts.
A guided, EMDR‑informed experience that interrupts the old reaction and creates a new pathway that feels different and true.

Step 6: Compare Old vs. New Response

You’ll notice in real terms how your body used to react and how it responds now.
This is where confidence begins to feel real and trackable.

Step 7: Lock In Your Financial Confidence

You’ll learn how to track and reinforce this shift so it lasts — not fades — and becomes available whenever money gets serious.

Inside the Wealth Upgrade, you'll get access to:

 

Why This Works So Fast

Because EMDR doesn’t convince you to feel confident.
It removes the pattern that made confidence impossible in the first place.

It’s the same class of method used by:

  • elite performers under pressure

  • leaders making high-stakes decisions

  • people who need their nervous system to stay online when it matters

Now it’s applied to the place women carry the most pressure and responsibility: money.

Ready to match your inner world to your outward success?

YES — I WANT THE MONEY UPGRADE

Stop thinking your way through money.
Start feeling your way into confidence

Bite-sized video lessons

Self-paced modules designed by a psychologist (hey, that’s me 👋) to shift how your body relates to money and power.

Wealth Upgrade Blueprint

Guided prompts + reflection exercises to help you uncover the gap between “realistic” goals and your deeper desires.

Expansive EMDR Meditation

Anchor in the energy of your wealthiest self with a guided process to regulate your nervous system for more.

60 day access

So you can revisit and reflect, letting each piece land as deeply as it needs to. 

Let’s Crank Up Your Wealth Thermostat

Why This Is Different
Most money work talks to your thoughts.
This speaks to the system that actually runs your decisions.

Imagine…
Sending the invoice without hesitation.
Naming your price without explaining it.
Opening your banking app and feeling steady.
Making financial decisions like you own them — not hope they land well.

That’s the difference between thinking confident and feeling confident.

 

 

If you’ve ever thought…

“Money should feel easier than this — especially after all I’ve achieved…”

…this experience shows you exactly what’s been running the show — and starts shifting it fast so confidence isn’t aspirational, it’s felt.

 

If You’ve Ever Thought…

“Money should feel easier than this.”

…then this is the missing piece.

By the end of this experience, you’ll know:

✔ Why your body reacts before your thoughts do
✔ How to catch and shift that reaction in real time
✔ What it feels like when your internal wiring starts to match your ambition
✔ How to move from loops and overthinking to calm, decisive action

 

Ready to Feel How Confident Money Actually Feels?

YES — I Want the 7‑Step Money Confidence Upgrade

Stop trying to think your way into confidence.
Start feeling it — right in your body, right now.

 

If you’ve ever thought…

“Money shouldn’t feel this hard by now"

This is the piece you’ve been missing.

By the end of The Wealth Upgrade, you’ll understand:

  1. Why your nervous system responds to money before your brain can catch up — even when you know better.

  2. How to catch the exact moment your body pulls back from more — and what to do instead.

  3. What it feels like when your internal wiring finally aligns with your income goals — and stops short-circuiting them.

  4. How to shift from looping thoughts to grounded action — fast, clean, and clear.

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The Wealth Upgrade?

Is it time to stop circling the same income level and finally understand what’s actually been holding you back?

To stop settling for 'almost' and step into the wealth you secretly know you’re meant for?

If your body’s saying 'hell yes'
Then there’s only one thing left to do..

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