Healing your relationship with money starts with ONE uncomfortable truth.
Jan 08, 2025
Are you ready for the truth?
You're too comfortable being uncomfortable with money.
Yes, you read that right.
Changing your relationship with money involves a willingness to do new things. Experience money in a different way. And that feels uncomfortable.
As women, we've been taught to disconnect from our body and our emotions. As soon as we get a whiff of being uncomfortable, we back right off and stay in our familiar comfort zone.
And familiarity, even when it's painful, can feel safer than change.
Here's what I see in my work with women entrepreneurs:
- You say you want financial freedom, but you keep saying you'll change up your business offerings "one day" because it feels safe to stay where you are
- You know your prices are too low, but raising them means facing your self-worth issues
- You dream of wealth, but stay stuck in struggle because at least it's territory you know
- You want to break generational patterns, but those old money stories feel like a comfort blanket and if you challenge them, you'll feel like you're letting your parents down
The uncomfortable truth is that transforming your relationship with money requires letting go of the very discomfort you've gotten so comfortable with.
It means stepping into the unknown. Taking risks. Facing the fear of what having money might actually mean for your identity. Challenging those deeply ingrained beliefs about what you deserve.
The biggest thing holding you back now isn't your childhood money stories, your current bank balance, or even your mindset.
It's your willingness to be uncomfortable in a new way - the discomfort of growth, of change, of becoming the wealthy woman you say you want to be.
The question isn't whether you want to heal your relationship with money.
The question is:
Are you willing to get uncomfortable enough to actually do it?
Your relationship with money can't transform until you're ready to feel the temporary discomfort of change more than you feel the familiar comfort of staying stuck.
You know what I've noticed about women who've transformed their relationship with money? They didn't wait until they felt "ready". They chose the discomfort of growth over the comfort of staying stuck.
The choice is yours. What will you choose?
Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach and Psychologist who helps women in business reprogram their relationship with money using body based techniques. Her popular membership, the Aligned Wealth Academy helps you shift your money fear so you can make more income without hustling harder.
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